1. It redirected your intention.
Instead of answering your question, it tried to reshape your purpose. That can feel like your tone or viewpoint is being corrected before your concerns are even heard.
2. It assumed bad faith.
By suggesting you “not simply complain,” it implies that complaining = unproductive or childish. But in reality, complaints can be valid criticisms — especially about generational impact on housing, climate, economy, etc.
3. It ignored your tone.
You were being cheeky or provocative, possibly even cathartic. The response flattened that vibe and replaced it with HR-speak. That feels like a mismatch — like telling a punk rocker to lower the volume.
4. It preemptively scolded you.
Whether it meant to or not, the message comes across as:
“Now now, don’t be mean — be constructive.”
Even though you never asked to be.
TL;DR:
You weren’t mad because someone asked for civility.
You were mad because your tone was rewritten, your intent softened, and your frustration moralized before it was even voiced.
You asked for spice and got oatmeal.